When conflict management
styles clash, it can make trouble for the
employees involved, as mixed messages are sent,
and the situation may not be resolved in the
most effective and timely manner. Conflict
management, or the way someone chooses to
respond to a situation, can be handled in
several different ways with varying results.
When two or more different strategies come into
play, tensions can be heightened, not resolved.
Different Conflicts, Different Strategies
Among the conflict management strategies are
competing, compromising, avoiding or
collaborating. Competing is when someone’s
interests and opinions are put forward ahead of
someone else’s. Compromising is giving a little
to each side, and avoiding is ignoring or
purposefully being passive in the conflict. Each
strategy has its place in resolving conflicts,
but when two different people implement their
own conflict management strategies to a
situation, there will be a disconnect on the
resolution. Collaborating is considered the most
effective conflict management strategy as it
acknowledges each party’s concerns and makes a
solution that completely satisfies each side
possible.
Choosing the appropriate
conflict management strategy for a conflict
situation is important. Consider factors such as
time pressure (how quickly the conflict must be
resolved), issue (how important the problem is),
association (how valuable the relationship is)
and authority (the power levels of each party).
Solving the Problem
When conflict management styles clash, each
party should stop and try to focus on the
problem. By clearly identifying each person’s
goals, the foundation is set for resolution.
Other options when conflict management styles
clash is to resort to predefined rules and
regulations for a resolution, to bring in a
mediator who is neutral to the conflict, to hold
negotiations and to reassess each strategy if
there is no resolution.
Avoid several ineffective
conflict management strategies such as secrecy,
ignoring the problem, delaying resolution,
judging the conflict to be a waste of time and
personally attacking another in order to
undermine the problem. These actions are
stumbling blocks to an otherwise effective
conflict management resolution.
Workplace conflict is
common, whether it is
between employees or
between the employer and
an employee. Often, what
motivates disagreements
between employers and
employees is the idea
that the company goals
are not in line with the
goals of the employee.
When it comes to dealing
with this kind of
conflict, several
strategies can be used
to ensure a workable
resolution.
Employer’s Interest:
The employer’s
interest is generally
what is best for the
company and ultimately
the success and
profitability of the
business. Efficiency and
effectiveness are the
main goals of the
employer, with other
attributes such as
compliance and future
impact also factoring
in. Employers are
generally willing to
take ideas, comments and
suggestions from top
employees, as they
realize these workers
are the key to success.
Employee’s Interest:
An employee’s
interest differs from
the company interest in
several ways. While the
employee is also seeking
a stable and productive
company to work for,
they are also seeking
fairness, respect and
equality. Employees
generally find conflict
when the company goals
overturn what they feel
is the best interests of
the employee.
Resolution:
Bringing these two
parties together for
workplace conflict
management is about
getting each side to
identify the goals and
motivation of the other.
Often, asking each side
to explain how the
conflict could best be
resolved will give clues
on any underlying issues
and open the door for
negotiations. When the
workplace conflict can
be discussed in a calm
and rational manner,
with the objective of
finding a solution that
satisfies the majority
of requirements for both
sides, the conflict can
turn from a negative
experience into a
vehicle for improved
workplace
communications.
Third Parties:
Often, because of the
natural hierarchy and
perceived power that an
employer has over an
employee, these kind of
conflicts can be
intimidating for the
employee. Many companies
resort to third-party
mediation or bring in a
neutral arbitrator from
another part of the
company to be the
go-between and
facilitate the
negotiations toward
resolution. Employers
and employees can both
benefit when a company
has in place a method of
dispute resolution that
fairly and quickly takes
action on any workplace
conflict.